Love Cake

Pork Rib Tips

How do you keep your relationship solid, fulfilling, juicy and exciting the same way those Pork Rib Tips are to me? Here are some few tips I gathered, either from my own experience, and from talking with other couples:

Do not go to bed angry at each other. The issue does not have to be completely resolved but both of you have made peace and calmed down at the least, so it avoids waking up and feeling all awkward.

Have sex as often as you can...by that, I mean any form of intimacy. :)

Kiss passionately. After many years, some couples stop french kissing, which is unfortunate. Once in a while, kiss your lover passionately the way you did in the beginning.

Mean it when you say "I Love You" and express it with your body as well (hands, eyes, or hugging, smiling, cuddling etc). (I know this ones seems obvious to many but some take for granted that words are enough, without the intention or tenderness that comes with those words).

Love each other every single day as opposed to taking it for granted that it will last forever. Everyday will eventually lead to forever.

After a long stressful day at work, eat first, discuss later. It's hard to stay calm on an empty stomach ( he he, this one comes from my 84 year old sweet grandmother)

Hold hands when arguing...It helps to stay connected even when not agreeing.

Communicate your thoughts, fear, joys.

Be playful and imaginative with each other. Keep your love innocent and fearless.

Find a common hobby.

Share your food with each other.

Do not fear to take the risk to make the other one happy. You will hurt more from the lack of trying.

Do not point fingers when fighting and focus on resolving the issue with some real solutions.

Smile at your partner whenever your eyes meet.

Leave surprises in her or his lunch box.

Be grateful you have a partner and show it to her or him. Do not take your loved one for granted as you are truly blessed to have him or her by your side (assuming it's a healthy relationship of course).

Watch your tone as it can easily be misinterpreted.

Know your partner's needs and make it your mission to cater to them even if it will take a life time.

Romance is the Art of making your partner feel like the most special and desirable person in the world. Savor those moments during this journey of Love Catering.

Any tips you would like to share with us? I would LOVE to hear yours as we are constantly growing and perfecting the Art of Loving. :)